(Collected Papers on Analytical Psychology - CHAPTER XIV THE PSYCHOLOGY OF THE UNCONSCIOUS PROCESSES -III.—The other Viewpoint: the Will to Power)The girl discovered this incomparable "arrangement" (to use Adler's term), applying it on occasion when the father was there with success. It became unnecessary when the father died, for now she was finally uppermost. The Italian was soon dismissed, because he laid too much stress upon her femininity by an inopportune reminder of his manliness. When the way opened to the possibility of a suitable marriage, she loved, adapting herself without any complaint to the deplorable rôle of the queen bee. As long as she held the position of admired superiority, everything went splendidly. But when her husband evinced a small outside interest, she was obliged again to have recourse to the extremely efficacious "arrangement," that is, to the indirect application of power, because she had once again come upon that thing—this time in her husband—that had already previously withdrawn her father from her influence.(https://ko.wikisource.org/wiki/%EB%B6%84%EC%84%9D%EC%8B%AC%EB%A6%AC%ED%95%99_%EB%85%BC%EB%AC%B8%EC%A7%91/Chapter14)